Daydreaming

Is life fair?

At certain points along life's journey, such a question will pop up in the thinking mind. That's when we remember all the bad stuff that happened and go OF COURSE NOT! If it is fair, why this and why that? Start getting frustrated and vivid memories of unfair personal situations creep in and start getting agitated. Why should I be the one to get all these or to go through all these?

Then there is the calm.

The better things come along into the head. It's not so bad. After all, there are quite a number of good things happening and generally there are quite a number of happy people around. Personal benefits and the little nice things that happened come back to mind. Awww....maybe it is not so bad huh? We just think too much about things and think too negatively.

Sometimes we use the bad stuff to remind us that not everything is rosy all the time and we have to be strong. And then we also try to use the good stuff to pacify ourselves that the world is not so bad. Contradicting whether we are trying to be put ourselves down for being too optimistic or trying to brighten up the thoughts before it gets too negative.

The thinking goes round and round and we never get any much further than where we started thinking. But time has passed and we just idled away. Hehehe.........it just happens.

Some people call it daydreaming.